Friday, January 3, 2014

Today's Tribute: Richard C. Roberts


Although we both grew up in eastern Massachusetts, I didn’t meet Rich until August of 2006, just one month after he and his wife, Michelle, had traveled to China to adopt their daughter, Lucy. Rich and I had a lot in common: in addition to being “New Englandahs” and having adopted our daughters from China, we were both extroverts, had both been into swing dancing during graduate school (he at UC Berkeley, myself at UC Davis), and we had both become inadvertent family documentarians through writing blogs during our adoption journeys. Even though our families only got together occasionally, it was easy to get to know Rich because of his friendly, gregarious nature. His smile could put anyone at ease. 

Despite being diagnosed with stage 3 melanoma in January 2007, Rich maintained his sunny disposition throughout the initial surgeries. Even after the cancer returned and he underwent further surgery and radiation treatment, he fought on, chronicling his efforts in a blog (richfights.blogspot.com) with both humor and candor. Sadly, the melanoma metastasized to Rich’s brain, and continued to spread to other organs despite a rollercoaster of radiation, chemotherapy, immunomodulatory drugs, and investigational medications. After a 27-month battle, at just 38 years old, Rich passed away at home on April 23, 2009. It was the nine-year anniversary of his first date with Michelle, and six months shy of Lucy’s 4th birthday. A larger hole was never left in a family or community.

When I first decided to apply to the Dana-Farber Marathon Challenge team, I knew I wanted to run in Rich’s memory. Dana-Farber is on the cutting edge of research for new treatment options for melanoma. I know that the funds I raise as a DFMC team member will forward their mission to find a cure, to prevent other families from suffering the pain of losing a son, a husband, a father, or a brother.  I hope that some of Rich's family members and friends will be along the course in Boston on April 21; just 2 days before the 5th anniversary of Rich’s passing, I can’t think of a better way to celebrate his life.

If you knew Rich and would like to share some memories of him, please leave a comment below.

Thursday, January 2, 2014

Happy New Year!!

Day 7 in the boot on my left foot! I apparently have given myself extensor tendonitis after that big hill in Walnut Creek a few weeks ago; went to the doctor to make sure the cause of nagging soreness on the top of my foot was not a stress fracture. X-rays were clear, so extensor tendonitis is the most likely diagnosis and he put me in a boot on Dec 26. I had been running on it despite the soreness, only about 3-5 miles a day, but he gave me a strict "no running" order, and I've been going stir crazy! He also has me on 400mg naproxen twice daily, and it is feeling better. After 10 days I will take off the boot and try walking on it through a normal day at work on Monday, January 6th. If all goes well through the week, I will start running again on Friday, January 10. I'm signed up for a 15K on January 12th which I may have to jog at a slow pace at best and may have to opt out of at worst.


Sunday, December 15, 2013

Thanksgiving, cold-weather training, and Half-Marathon PR

After a short run in 24*F weather
The holidays are always such a busy time. Even though it is the start of a hectic season, Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday, because its focus is on family, spending time together and appreciating all of the blessings in our lives. Especially with the knowledge that so many families are missing loved ones at this time of year, I am especially grateful that my parents and parents-in-law, brother and brother-in-law, my husband, myself and especially my daughters are all healthy.

This year we were in northern Indiana for Thanksgiving, where it was in the 20s and 30s. Having been born in Buffalo, NY, I rather like the cold, as long as I'm appropriately dressed. It was 24*F on Sunday, Nov. 24 when I went out for a run around my in-laws' neighborhood. With my face completely covered (by yellow instead of black, much less frightening!) and several layers on top, I was relatively comfortable. It was good preparation for our return to Northern California, where we've had some really cold weather (20s and 30s!) over the past 2 weeks! Normally, we are pretty spoiled with temperatures in the 40s and 50s throughout the winter, so it has been good to remind myself what all of the east-coasters do all winter long to train for Boston!

34*F in San Rafael on 12/8/13
Yesterday my husband and I had the rare privilege of running the same race, the Walnut Creek Half Marathon. Our girls stayed with friends overnight so we could stay at the Marriott in Walnut Creek and not have to leave home before 5am. We picked up our bibs at the Elite Sports Authority and I bought a Batman shirt to run the race in - the story of SF Batkid has inspired so much goodwill (not to mention increasing the country's awareness of childhood cancers); I wanted to run this race with Miles in mind and maybe bring a smile to some of the supporters on the course.
We ate at Denny's (oatmeal, and egg-white omelet and wheat toast for me) and bought some throw-away sweats at Walmart since temperatures were predicted to be 32*F at the start. The Marriott was about a mile or so from the start, so after a donut and some coffee in our room, we hopped on a shuttle to Civic Park and arrived at about 6:35. There was hardly anyone there yet, which was odd given the 7am start time, but I was happy not to have to wait too long for the port-a-potties. Just before the start I took off my Walmart sweats and draped them over a parking meter, with the thought of possibly retrieving them later. A woman in the same start area asked if I was going to leave them there, and mentioned wanting to leave her gloves to pick up later. I asked her what her target finish time was and when she replied 1:55, I said "Oh, great, mine, too - why don't you tuck the gloves into my sweatshirt so they won't get blown away or taken. Then hopefully we'll finish around the same time and you can pick them up!" A minute later, a local pastor led us in prayer, and then the race began.

I started just behind the 1:50 pace group but didn't try to keep up with them, knowing their pace would not be sustainable for me. My goal was to stay between 8:40 and 8:50 per mile on the flat portions of the course, and having done the 9-mile race at 8:35s a couple of weeks ago, I felt pretty confident that I could achieve that. I knew there were a couple of hills, including a great big one, but after Tiburon even the hills didn't scare me. I knew they'd slow me down, but I knew I'd be able to get up them without walking!

The first few miles, through downtown Walnut Creek, were flat, and it seemed like there were lots of people running with me.  At mile 5 there was a little hill, and a few of the runners around me made comments like "That can't be the only hill." and "Oh, there's a much bigger one coming up!" By then the crowds had thinned a bit; we had left downtown, passed some residential areas on Cowell, and turned right onto Ygnacio Valley Road. Running up the hill, through some of Walnut Creek's beautiful open space, the line of runners was almost single file. The hill crested at a summit of 476 feet, in the Lime Ridge Open Space, surrounded by chaparral. It was beautiful!



Even though the ascent was difficult, I still felt strong, and, knowing there were no more hills to come, I let myself fly down the hill, which felt great! I passed runner after runner on the downhill and continuing through mile 10. I was a little disappointed that I started to feel tired around mile 11, and slowed down quite a bit the last mile, but about half of that last mile was on a trail instead of road, and I'm always a little ginger-footed on trails. It was narrow, windy and the ground was uneven but frozen, so I was a little tentative. It was a cute path through a park. Just before the finish, there was a tiny hill up to a pedestrian overcrossing, and Edward was cheering me on as I crossed the bridge. "It's a race!" he reminded me, helping me kick it in for the last tenth of a mile to meet my goal of 1:55 (plus a few seconds), a new personal record! (My previous best was 1:57:21 in August 2012, on a flat course.) I felt like a champion.


The snacks after the finish were plentiful, but I couldn't eat anything except an orange slice. I was tired! Happily, when we reached the start, my pink sweatshirt was still sitting on the parking meter where I'd left it, with my sweatpants and the other runner's black gloves underneath. (I was a little sad that the other runner hadn't met her goal and we weren't at the finish at the same time, but happy to have my sweats back!) I left her gloves on the meter and put my warm sweats on for the walk to find a shuttle bus. It had only warmed up a few degrees, so I was grateful for the sweats!

With no shuttles in sight, we walked back to the Marriott. A few minutes into the walk, for the first time ever, I had a really bad cramp in my right leg, and couldn't put weight on it for a minute. I stretched it out, tried to walk it off and was able to resume the slow trek back to the hotel. We showered and enjoyed a buffet breakfast before heading back to San Rafael to pick up the girls. I'm pretty sore today and did not run, but will go out for a mile or two tomorrow.

No official photos from the race yet, but I'll post when they are available.

Monday, November 18, 2013

Daffodils

Just heard about this amazing project by volunteers, planting daffodil bulbs all along the Boston Marathon route:


Boston News, Weather, Sports | FOX 25 | MyFoxBoston
 
http://www.myfoxboston.com/story/23924481/2013/11/09/organizers-plant-daffodils-along-boston-marathon-route

That is sure to bring some tears on race day!

Sunday, November 17, 2013

Races #91 and 92

Two weeks ago (on Sunday, November 3), race #91 for me was the inaugural running of the Tiburon Half Marathon. It was my first half since the Seaside Half Marathon in February, and I was nervous. Even though I run along the Tiburon waterfront frequently and am used to the wind, I had never run out along the Strawberry peninsula.

At right is a photo taken from downtown Tiburon at dusk, with Angel Island and the San Francisco skyline visible. If you've never been to Tiburon, it is absolutely worth a visit, especially in the fall.

DSC02271 Angel Island and SF skyline
The half marathon course is gorgeous - easily the most beautiful half marathon course I've run - but has some killer hills! Having driven the course on Saturday, I knew I'd have to take it pretty easy in order not to die on the last half of the race. So I kept about a 9:30-9:40 pace, which is pretty much where I run my easy training runs, for the first 5 miles. Then miles 6-9 were the hills, on average about 110-120 feet of elevation gain over each mile, and I was so proud not to have walked at all. Even though sometimes my paces were reading 13+ minutes per mile on the uphill, I managed to average under a 10:00 pace throughout miles 6-9. By mile 10 I knew it was downhill to the finish, so I was able to get back under 9:30 for miles 10 & 11,  then at 8:45-8:55 for miles 12 & 13, and 7:46 for the last tenth of a mile. I was thrilled to have negative splits, especially given that the hills are all in the last half. It was a great race and I hope to do it again next fall!


Today, race #92 was the DSE Double Lake Merced 9-mile race. I used to run the DSE Summer Series around Lake Merced just about every week, so the course is really familiar to me, and I was looking forward to it. It was foggy in San Rafael when I left, so I was quite surprised to find it gorgeous and sunny in San Francisco. I was feeling pretty good, decided to try to run at an 8:30-8:45 pace, finished in 1:17:08, and was surprised to find I was the 2nd female finisher! (Now who knows, maybe only 5 females ran the Double today... but I'm happy anyway!)

Tomorrow I'm at UC Davis for the day, and Maggie's track workout is in the dark at Tam High, so I'm not sure when I'll get a run in. I've been averaging about 30 miles per week for the past month or so, running 3-5 miles five days a week and 6-10 on the sixth day. Tuesdays are my day off, because typically that's the longest surgery day for me. It's harder to get a run in after work now that it's dark by 5pm! I may have to start doing some treadmill miles. It beats getting up early when it's 45*F!!

Thursday, November 7, 2013

Today's Tribute: Karen Lynch

Four years ago yesterday, my friend Karen underwent a mastectomy for treatment of breast cancer. Although the surgeons were confident that they had been able to render her cancer-free, she nonetheless endured months of radiation treatments and chemotherapy, to ensure that no single cancer cell remained.

From the moment she was diagnosed, all through her treatment, and into the years following, Karen has been an inspiration to everyone around her. She faced cancer with courage, wit and grace. I think she was surprised to learn that we all found her just as gorgeous with a pixie cut as with her signature long locks!

Karen has always been a trailblazer. Born and raised in San Francisco, she graduated from U.C. Berkeley and, in 1981, became one of the first female police officers in the San Francisco Police Department. Despite their ubiquity as characters on today's TV crime dramas, female homicide detectives were a rare breed when Karen joined the force. Seeing the worst of human nature every day at work, it would be easy to become hard-hearted. But Karen remains open, outgoing, friendly and giving.

Following her diagnosis, she retired from SFPD and followed her dream of becoming a writer. Her essay, "The Road to Kyra", in which she describes the journey to adopting her daughter, won the 2012 Notes & Words essay contest. In her forthcoming memoir, Good Cop, Bad Daughter, she describes her extraordinary childhood in Chinatown, her relationship with her bipolar-afflicted mother, and her decision to become a police officer.

Karen and her daughter, Kyra
Having two biological sons, she adopted a daughter from China, which made her a member of a world-wide community of adoptive parents, and eventually led us to meet. I was a new mom when I first met Karen, and she became like a big sister to me and an auntie to my daughters.

Through her career, at church, with other gymnastics moms, fellow writers, and adoptive parents, Karen has touched many lives. With her openness and giving spirit, Karen has become like family to friends near and far, of diverse backgrounds and broad experiences. Strong, smart, beautiful, confident, generous and giving, she is not only surviving, but thriving after her cancer diagnosis. She is an inspiration to us all.



Karen with my daughter, Ella, February 2013
Karen with my daughter, Maggie, October 2010

Maggie and Karen ice skating, November 2010
Maggie and Karen, August 2006
Feel free to comment on this post if you have something nice to say about Karen! You can also make a donation to the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute in Karen's honor.